I delete the message in received but it deleted it from the database. But that deletes what the other person sees as well. I should only be able to delete what is visible to me. The message is sent or the message I received. Dont allow me to view the messages I sent as a received message as well. Only allow me to see the message I sent. the sent message. Show me the message that matches. Username and from or username and to. If username matches from , then only show me that from message. If username matches to, then only show me that to message. or only show me the message that matches my datatoken.